Spanking advice

I’m not sure I agree with Dr. Victoria Zdrok’s assertion that “a majority of women have fantasies about being spanked.” Many do, sure, but there are plenty of women who hate spanking or are indifferent or are naturally dominant. So let’s not leave them out just because I (we?) happen to be into spanking.

But here is her advice at Askmen.com about spanking a woman:

To master the art of erotic spanking, it is important to understand the following six principles:

# The bottom is a prime erogenous zone; however, unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation — like in spanking — to trigger them;

# The physiological process of sexual arousal demands that before orgasm can occur, blood must be collected and kept in the genitals and nearby areas. Spanking creates just such a physiological response, as the stinging of the skin causes blood to collect in the bottom (and simultaneously in the nearby genitals), thus accomplishing “mechanically” what caresses and kisses do psychologically;

# A properly done spanking, such as over the knee or with a cushion or other support propping up the woman’s bottom, causes the bottom to squirm from the sting, simultaneously resulting in her rubbing her clitoris on the supporting knee, pillow, etc.

# The feeling of “surrender” or submission is an important part of a woman’s sexual response, as many women need to give up control and give themselves “permission” to feel sexual. Spanking incites and reinforces such feelings;

What about you? What’s your best advice about how to deliver a spanking (to a man or a woman)?

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